Also many girls too engage in "hi" messages. How we spend our free time says a lot. People should labor under the rule of thumb that no answer is also an answer. I thought I put it on my profile recently and after reading this remember that was dumb, but I checked my profile and it's not on there. We went out 4 times, and kissed on our first date.
It may take some tweaking to get your profile just right.
How to make a great dating profile
I mean, if a woman's photo is of her hanging on some guy, it doesn't give you pause? Following your fish analogy, we would have to assume the fish wants to get caught, since women go on online dating because they want to find a partner. OKC initiating is more email-ish part of the reason I don't really use it anymore since they got rid of the chatso "hey" is less appropriate there. The more informal standard greetings: This is your opportunity to get intellectual with your obscure book recommendations or relive your angst of your teenage years with your favorite high school bands. I lack anyone to take a photo of me or the drive to go somewhere and take a photo in open area.