Guys in Silicon Valley, Andersen explained, can sometimes struggle to read nonverbal cues: On the other end of the spectrum is a subset of club-going men who troll for hookups in bars and are "pushy," according to Kristen. Because of the lack of women, or because the guys here are really busy, there really isn't much of a casual dating scene. Not a bad thing, but definitely more filtering and sifting," she said. There are more jobs "for women" in NYC. I have never seen anybody describe the Ivy League as being known for having attractive women.
That's a dilemma I'm happy to avoid.
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Another consequence of this is that it seems like the really quality guys just don't even bother asking girls out because they don't want to be lumped in with the guys that will ask anything with a skirt out. The dilemma I have now is that I hate the commute to my south bay job, but I don't want to live the city. How do you know when there is sincere chemistry on his side? After three waves of feminism why are men still obligated to spend three months of salary on expensive engagement rings? The women who are out, are typically insane.